Jacob fans and anti-twilight fans, whom I've had the opportunity to talk and debate with, believe that Edward and Bella's relationship is dependant on the other along with various topics. I am curious as to what you guys think of their opinions.
These are all real rebutles or argument points that I have seen. I didn't make these up!
-Bella's dependancy on Edward is degrading to women.
-Edward and Bella's relationship is unhealthy because Edward is abusive and controlling. He makes her decisions for her without asking her and makes decisions for the both of them without consulting her.
-Edward thought he left Bella for her own good, but it was selfish being so controlling and basically taking choice away from Bella and trying to be the hero and seem selfless.
-Their relationship is built on physical attraction, not love.
As a Bella/Edward shipper, I've had my share of debates with ~other fans. Have you come across any of these arguments? If not these, which ones? And, what are your thoughts about these?